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Material: Vinyl, ABS plastic | Speed: 2 | Pattern: 0 | Size: 10 inches in length | Type: Corded

When you think of a wand vibrator, chances are the Magic Wand comes to mind. The Magic Wand, which was previously known as the Hitachi Magic Wand, remains a popular pick for many, says Dr. Queen—and for good reason. The wand is ten inches long, and the plug-in toy has a six-foot-long power cord, so it’s great for people who don’t want to worry about having to charge up their toy. That way, you can use it—in the words of Lionel Richie—all night long. It also has two different intensity speeds, ranging from 5,000 to 6,000 vibrations per minute, making it incredibly powerful. As such, it isn’t the quietest option on the list. “I like to say it purrs like a kitten, but to be honest, it’s a big kitten, so if you have thin walls and you’re a little shy, or you want to consensually use your vibe next to your partner after they’ve fallen asleep, you might want a different model,” says Dr. Queen.

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Material: Silicone, ABS plastic | Speed: 3 | Pattern: 0 | Size: 9.6 inches in length | Type: Cordless

Less intimidating but no less powerful than its predecessor is the Magic Wand Mini. iIt comes with a few upgrades: It has three speeds, ranging from 3,5000 to 6,000 vibrations per minute, and it’s made from silicone as opposed to vinyl. Its size, which is a little over nine inches long, also makes it a great on-the-go option, says Dr. Queen. Plus, it’s powered by a rechargeable battery. It offers over two hours of uninterrupted pleasure—and when not in use, it automatically shuts off after 20 minutes to conserve power. Just keep in mind that it takes just as long to recharge the battery.

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Material: Silicone | Speed: 3 | Pattern: 6 | Size: Not specified | Type: Cordless

Pepper’s Pamper Massage Wand comes equipped with three speeds and six vibration patterns, along with a flexible head, allowing for some customization. “This looks like a nice vibe,” says Dr. Queen. “I especially like the touch-sensor function, which many others don’t have.” The touch-sensor function makes this wand a cinch to use: it comes alive when it comes into contact with your body, and it shuts off after a certain period of noncontact. A casual swipe of your finger also lets you adjust the speed to your liking. As responsive as it is to touch, it isn’t so sensitive as to accidentally power on without your consent.

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Material: Silicone, ABS plastic | Speed: 10 | Pattern: 6 | Size: 10 inches in length | Type: Cordless

The Le Wand Petite comes recommended by Luquin. “It’s the most popular one with great reviews,” she says. “It looks like your typical body wand massager with a head and handle, which makes it easier on your hands and simpler to maneuver.” However, Dr. Queen mentions that since it’s smaller and quieter compared to other options featured on the list, it emits less powerful vibrations. Still, it’s worth consideration: It’s made from body-safe silicone, and it features 10 speeds and six vibration patterns. What’s more, it operates cordlessly and is shower-friendly. One tradeoff: It has a battery life of one hour and it takes twice the amount of time to recharge. Shop it in five colors, including blue, navy, rose gold, dark cherry, and violet.

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Material: Silicone, ABS plastic | Speed: Not specified | Pattern: 10 | Size: 12 inches in length | Type: Cordless

The Lelo Smart Wand 2 comes with the recommendation of Blue and Luquin—and it’s easy to see why. For one, it’s beautiful, but it is also very ergonomic. “Lelo’s Smart Wand 2 features a more curved design for the handle, which is great because you don’t have to do too much maneuvering of your wrist or elbow,” says Luquin. It has a user-friendly interface, too. It only has three buttons, two of which increase and decrease the speed, and one to toggle among the 10 vibration patterns. The wand is made of body-safe silicone and is fully waterproof, and best of all, it has a battery life of up to four hours.

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Material: Silicone | Speed: 0 | Pattern: 8 | Size: 3.75 inches in length | Type: Cordless

The Demi Wand is the product of a collaboration between sex toy retailer Bellesa Boutique and superstar Demi Lovato—and it was designed specifically for beginners. While other sex wands use patterns, the Demi Wand only offers eight vibration modes, which you can quickly activate with the button at the bottom of the toy. Plus, the wand is also discreet in both size (it’s a little over three inches long) and sound. Unlike other rechargeable models, the Demi Wand comes with a charging case, but like the best wand vibrators of the bunch, it’s made from body-safe silicone and is fully waterproof.

Read the full review of the Bellesa Boutique Demi Wand here. 

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Material: Silicone | Speed: 5 | Pattern: 5 | Size: 10.5 inches in length | Type: Cordless

Beloved by Blue, the Dame Com bends any way you want it, so you don’t have to bend over backwards to enjoy the pleasure it provides. “I love the flexibility of the wand, which helps get better angles.” The wand itself is waterproof and made from medical-grade silicone. Plus, it features a total of 10 speed and vibration patterns, which allows for experimentation. The wand is a little over 10 inches long, which makes it larger than most options featured on the list, but this isn’t necessarily a bad thing—its size is indicative of its power. Just note that it offers up to one hour of use before needing to be recharged for a little over two hours.

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Material: Silicone | Speed: Not specified | Pattern: Not specified | Size: 3.5 inches in length | Type: Cordless

This rechargeable wand vibrator, as the name suggests, fits in your palm. It’s small like a bullet vibrator, with the ball-shaped head of your standard sex wand. “This would be great for folks who are just starting their toy collection, as it’s compact and thus may not feel too intimidating,” says Blue, with the caveat that it might not be the best option for those who want more powerful vibrations. That aside, it has some pretty impressive specs for something of its stature. It has a runtime of 90 minutes, and it has multiple speed and vibration patterns, though the manufacturer doesn’t indicate exactly how many. The silicone wand is also made water resistant, and it operates using just one button. What’s more, its head is removable so you can fit the wand with multiple attachments.

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Material: Silicone | Speed: 0 | Pattern: 10 | Size: 8.25 inches in length | Type: Cordless

One of the first things that struck us about The FemmeFunn Ultra Wand is that its silicone surface is textured all over. “It is so cool-looking, with a patterned exterior that doubles as a grip assist,” says Dr. Queen, adding, “it’s petite, rechargeable, and waterproof.” This model is available in three different colors—purple, turquoise, and pink—and offers 10 different vibrations. It’s a little over eight inches long and the head measures almost two inches in diameter, and while smaller in size, it makes up for what it lacks in flexibility. Plus, it operates with just one button, making it easy to find what feels good for you.

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Material: Silicone | Speed: 0 | Pattern: 10 | Size: 8.5 inches in length | Type: Cordless

The We-Vibe Rave 2 offers double the pleasure, thanks to its dual-purpose functionality. Not only can you use it for external stimulation, you can also use it for insertion. Plus, there are two motors at either end of the wand to target different erogenous zones at the same time. The wand is made from body-safe silicone, and it offers 10 vibration patterns, which you can select among with a quick push of a button. With this toy, you’ll get two hours of uninterrupted playtime and you can submerge it in water. It has a waterproof rating of IPX7, which means it’s able to withstand temporary submersion. It’s also one of the more high-tech wands on the list, as it can be controlled through an app, making it perfect for “partnered play, especially for those in long-distance relationships,” says Blue.

Read the full review of the We-Vibe Rave 2 here. 

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Material: Silicone, ABS plastic | Speed: 0 | Pattern: 10 | Size: 8.5 inches in length | Type: Cordless

The Naughty Bits WILF (and, yes, that stands for “Wand I’d Like to F*ck”) is a beautifully patterned massager made out of body-safe silicone. While not all sex wands are meant for internal use, this one is. “I know someone somewhere has flipped the wand over to explore the handle’s erotic possibilities,” says Dr. Queen. This rechargeable vibe has 10 functions “of intense vibration, pulsation, and escalation,” per the product’s page. With a full charge, which takes about two hours and a half, you get up to three hours of pleasure. It’s similar in size to The FemmeFunn Ultra Wand—coming in at eight inches long and a little less than two inches in diameter. Plus, it’s also waterproof.

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Material: Silicone| Speed: Not specified | Pattern: Not specified | Size: 12 inches in length | Type: Cordless

This 12-inch-long massage wand boasts a total of eight speeds and vibration patterns as well as waterproof status—you can submerge it in three-foot-deep water for a whole half-hour. “I like this toy because it’s a good size and pretty easy to use to stimulate yourself sexually but to also massage your back,” says Luquin. “It’s the definition of multipurpose.” If you have other Unbound toys, rest assured that the charger for that will also work with the Ollie, since it’s universal. It takes about an hour to fully charge and gives you an hour of play thereafter. The head of this toy is a little over three inches long and almost seven inches in circumference, so it covers a lot at once. Whether you’re looking for a “new bathtime buddy or post-workout massager,” you can’t go wrong with Ollie. (Their words!)

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Material: Silicone, aluminum, titanium | Speed: Not specified | Pattern: Not specified | Size: 11 inches in length | Type: Corded

If Dr. Queen were to pick a favorite wand vibrator, the Doxy Massager would be her top pick. “First of all, it’s super gorgeous,” she says. “These are clad in metal, not plastic, have silicone heads, are corded, and are especially rumbly,” she says. She likens it to the Magic Wand, only she notes that this one has worldwide dual-voltage compatibility so it can accompany you on trips abroad. Also, it has multiple speed and vibration pattern options—and it’s extremely powerful, reaching up to 9,000 vibration per minute. So if you’re looking for a wand that, pleasantly, packs a punch, we suggest this one. It is corded, but the cord is 12 feet long, allowing you plenty of space to work with. As a bonus: its head is removable—and you can replace it with one of Doxy’s other attachments.

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Material: Silicone, ABS plastic | Speed: 10 | Pattern: 10 | Size: 7.87 inches in length | Type: Cordless

According to Dr. Queen, “The Sunflower is a very modern take on the wand vibe. It vibrates at both ends, has multiple functions, is mid-range strong—for those who find the powerhouse wands to be a bit much—and its head is textured for varying sensation.” One look at the waterproof Sunflower is all you need to know it stands out from the pack exactly because of its new-age design. Instead of having a tennis-ball-like tip, The Sunflower features a ribbed head for different sensations throughout your body and a more pointed tip for more targeted stimulation. It also comes equipped with a total of 20 vibrating speeds and functions, all customizable with the touch of the top button (for increasing speeds) or the bottom button (in case you want to slow it all down). A bonus: you also have the option to light up in the dark.

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Material: Silicone | Speed: 6 | Pattern: 5 | Size: 11.46 inches in length | Type: Cordless

This wand massager has it all—a silicone body, multiple speed and vibration patterns, and as if that weren’t enough, two attachments to make it versatile. One attachment is made for nipple and clitoral stimulation, while the other targets your G-spot—both of which are also made from body-safe silicone. Commerce editor Francesca Krempa took it for a spin, and she was thoroughly impressed. “Aesthetics aside, the sheer power of this wand is what’s most impressive. Like its Magic Wand cousin, it packs a punch, featuring Zalo’s innovative vibrating technology that concentrates whisper-quiet vibrations into the wand’s head for serious stimulation,” Krempa wrote. “Add the silicone attachments for teasing and tickling? Your body will feel like the sacred temple it is.” What’s more, it operates cordlessly and it has a runtime of up to two hours (you just have to be sure to charge it for the equivalent amount of time).

Read the full review of the Zalo Kyro Wand Massager here. 

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Material: Silicone, aluminum alloy| Speed: 10 | Pattern: 20 | Size: 11.42 inches in length | Type: Corded

The Le Wand Die Cast Plug-In Vibrating Massager offers the most speed and vibration patterns on this list, making it ideal for those who want full control over their experience. Its head is made from silicone while its handle is cast in aluminum alloy, which lends the wand a weightier feel that induces more pressure—and thus, more pleasure—when you press it against your body. This is something to which Well+Good contributor Gabrielle Kassel has attested: “The vibrations were so powerful I couldn’t just feel them through the layers, but I was able to cum from the indirect contact.” The wand also comes equipped with an eight-foot-long power cord, but if you’d prefer a wireless version, Le Wand offers a rechargeable version for a few more dollars.

Read the full review of the Le Wand Die Cast Vibrator here. 

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Material: Silicone | Speed: 8 | Pattern: 20 | Size: 7.9 inches in length | Type: Cordless

If you’re looking for one of the best vibrators on Amazon, look no further than Ava’s best-selling Personal Wand Massager. It’s received over 7,000 5-star reviews from happy customers, and it meets expert criteria. The wand is made from body-safe silicone, and it has eight speeds and 20 vibration patterns to choose from—and, not to mention, it’s waterproof. The manufacturer indicates that it offers up to six hours of interrupted play, but some reviewers have mentioned that the runtime isn’t as long as promised. You’ll also have to recharge it for two and half hours to get it back to full speed. This aside, it is ideal for anyone who is looking for a budget-friendly wand vibrator—it’s the cheapest option featured on the list at just under $30.

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